Alpha Male Vs. Beta Male:
“How can those women fight over such a loser?”
“They are fighting each other and looking foolish when really they should be fighting him?”
“What’s he got that I don’t got?”
You often hear these phrases or phrases such as these uttered from the lips of so many. You may have uttered them yourself, and sat in awe as to why some women would be so foolish as to give their “all” to some “unworthy” individual. Even to go as far as fighting a complete stranger for their prized possession.
The following discussion may shed some light on the phenomenon—depending on your perspective. Allow me to set a precipice for our discussion.
We live in a multi dimensional reality. Allow me to define what I mean by such. We live in a superficial or sentient reality that constantly has to reinforce its value structure upon us—the individual, and exert itself upon society as a whole. We also live in an actual reality that is hidden behind the superficial reality but prominently exerts itself upon us—because it is who we are. The two coincide and often clash for one is constantly trying to circumvent the other and prove that which is false.
I entitle the superficial reality the matrix. It is a holographic universe—an illusionary universe built on commerce—the commodity of goods bought and sold. This reality’s infrastructure is built on the free flow of the commodity market. In this reality, the worth of things is based on a dollar amount. Every item and every transaction has a dollar amount. Even to the point that time equates to money. People become only worth as much as the amount of revenue that they can generate for the system—the matrix. Labor is bought and sold, ideas are bought and sold, services are bought and sold, items are bought and sold, dreams are bought and sold, love is bought and sold, women/men are bought and sold, children are bought and sold. In this reality everyone and everything has a price. This is the reality that we are taught from birth–the reality that is so vigorously instilled in our heads throughout out our matriculation through the institutions of education. It is constantly reinforced through media, entertainment, and pretty much any outlet that you can name.
And then we have the actual reality that is in completely juxtaposed– one that remains perfectly hidden in plain sight. And this is the fact that we are spiritual beings having a human existence—rather some of us are spiritual beings having a human existence. This existence does not place “values” on the individual. This reality knows very little bounds if any and is forever changing and evolving, but its basis stays the same. It is a dual reality– one of physical existence coinciding with that of a spiritual existence. This creates a dualism in itself. This is because these two realities are merged through mediation, by the instrument of the brain, through the function of the mind. Thus you will have individuals with great physical prowess that are deemed alpha and those with great spiritual prowess that are also deemed alpha. One translates very well in the holographic universe the other isn’t always as evident.
These precepts form the basis of our discussion. How is one defined as alpha and how is one defined as beta?
In our current state of existence the idea of an alpha male is very muddied. The term doesn’t hold wait because the individuals that comprise our society have so many different value structures. You have some who hold money as omnipotent and will deem those with money as alpha males to be revered. These same people will look down on a man without possessions as being “worthless”. Some will hold a great athlete in high regard and deem them as being alpha, because of their great physical prowess. Yet others, will uphold some great musician as being alpha, because they have such a great talent intertwined with a captivating aura—ie more intuned with their spiritual side.
So who indeed is correct?
Is it subjective? –Arguably.
I offer this commentary. Anything that the holographic universe holds up on a pedestal is more than likely a falsehood. Individuals have input a system in the place that has allowed them to accrue vast “wealth” and “power” through this current economic structure. These individuals are seemingly “God’s” of the system because they have the ability to manipulate and dictate so much. This is counterintuitive to the natural principle of survival of the fittest. It places a corrupt variable within the equation—which doesn’t allow the fittest of body and spirit the flourish–but the fittest of manipulation to flourish. And I would argue that these individuals and blood lines are the among the very weakest among us which is why they require this system to survive and maintain their power.
I digress, many among us in society have gift that aren’t necessarily able to be commoditized. In such, these gifts are never fully developed, never recognized, and often seen in a negative light. For example, take your typical child diagnosed with “ADD or ADHD”. This is a phenomenon not understood by society but is treated as something negative that needs to be “solved” with medicine. When in actuality it could something in the exact opposite light. It could be a child with such a hyper developed mind that there is no way they can sit still and incur such a remedial –retarded manner of education that the school system forces upon our children. Their mind is racing to infinity and back and the teachers teaching are stuck on “123” & “ABC”. This is just one example of many. We as a society are taught to kill anything not able to be made into a commodity. In essence we kill everything spiritual unless it is spiritual convenient—ie religion which happens to generate billions upon billions.
So, I believe women tend to be more in tuned with the intuitive: their “feelings”. Thus they will tend to pick up on these gifts with an individual unknowingly and unwittingly and take a liking to said individual-which brings us full circle. Perhaps they are not fighting over a “worthless” individual. Perhaps they are fighting over someone who is really special–someone who is quite the opposite.—someone who has been psychologically traumatized by society.–someone who doesn’t understand their gifts. Someone who has been convinced their gifts are worthless and have in turn internalized this sentiment and outwardly manifested this pervading motif.–someone who hasn’t found motivation to succeed in the holographic reality and appears to be a “waste”.
This argument provides insight as to why the Beta male wears the crown. There are many launch points from here that can be expounded upon. But I will leave it here and leave those thoughts for another blog.
Thank you for reading and your responses are welcomed.